One Foot Out The Door – They say I am JUSTIFIED in leaving!

“You don’t deserve to live this way!” “That’s just too much for you to have to put up with!” “You should not have to stay!” “YOU ARE JUSTIFIED IN LEAVING!!!” All of those things were said to me when our marriage was in severe crisis. Our marriage was beyond low; our marriage was broken, non-existent.   […]

Doing What is Best for My Children

In my last post (Does Your Spouse Rank Before or After Your Pet?), I referenced how I had changed up my priorities after a lot of soul searching, praying, and discerning. They used to be: 1) Work 2) Children 3) Volunteering 4) Dog 5) Friends 6) ? There was no time for a 6, leaving […]

Where is God?

Here on Servant Spouse I write mostly about marriage and my expertise I guess you could say is crisis marriage. If you have followed our blog for this last year you know that in the past we suffered greatly “in” our marriage and “with” our marriage but what you probably do not know is “the […]

Role of Suffering in Marriage

Life is full of agony and suffering. Everywhere we look our family, friends, and even ourselves are suffering. All suffering is difficult but marital suffering can be especially challenging. Because of Adam and Eve’s original sin, we live in an imperfect world. Because of this imperfect world, the relationship between husband and wife is not […]